Love Is In The Air???

Assalamualaikum

After going through a lot of times reading the newsfeed in my Facebook accounts, it gives me the idea to say something about it. OKAY.., NO offense to anyone but why I kept reading the very same status about RELATIONSHIP or LOVE or I'M DONE WITH YOU, LET'S BREAK UP or the status IN A RELATIONSHIP and vice versa or even LOVE QUOTES???

Please don't say that I'm a Miss Stalker because I simply can't help myself from not going through it as its already on my screen. Okay, maybe you would think that I am out of my mind or you could just simply say 'mind your own business' or 'hey, if you don't like it, just delete the post' but I can't coz it's too many and I'm not gonna waste my time deleting all those things. 

But I  tell you my 'favorite' part is the 'break-ups'stats. Okay, I'm also a girl who would feel bad if someone dumped me (but thank God, no so far :p) but the girls out there whom the stats are meant for you.... pleaseee , I beg you, could you please mind your language? Gosh..., their comments on the stats are soo horrible and make me think that 'no wonder that guy dumped you, judging by your words..uuurrgghh' 

That's one. I got another stats that is quite 'interesting' also. A guy confessing a love to the girl in a status and tagging all of his friends not just the 'girl'!!! Errr.., that puts up a question mark in my head, a big question mark, really...is that one of boys' style to make his friends impressed with him because he is such a 'BRAVE' guy to ask a girl to couple with him??? It is soooo NOT impressive and gentleman at all.., for me lah...

You know, I think only a stupid girl who would only accept the so-called 'love confession'. And the hilarious thing that ever happened to this kind of stats are when the girls are not accepting the 'love' that guy eventually reply a comment with nasty words......AND there you go, the 'fight' between the 'lovebirds' striked...hahaa.., and how it end??? that guy just delete the "love confession' post! Done!

What a waste of time and kinda silly, wasn't it?

Okay...., about the changing of someone's status. That was the most confusing part for me. Why they so like to change their status whether you're 'SINGLE', IN A RELATIONSHIP', 'ENGAGED', or 'MARRIED'? I mean it was okay if you're really single or even married. Fine with me. But what's with the single status and suddenly in 2 weeks they changed it to being in a relationship and after 2 DAYS, they changed it back to single and after that back to engaged and after sometimes it changed back to in a relationship....what the crap??? Seriously, I don't get it. For me, people like this just wanna draw attention. Its like they wanna say 'hey, I'm single again, its kinda pathetic isn't it?' and the people will actually commenting stuff like 'he blew you off?' or the guys 'guess i'll have my chance this time' or 'c'mon who need a couple?' and other similar comments. Seriously, that is just so unacceptable for me....

The finale and the best of the best is the lurvequotes! ahah..!! It could be totally heart-wrenching..hahaha (iye ke) I questioned myself do you feel 'the love is in the air' mood when you read the stats? Then I answered back to me NO! There's this love quote. A very sweet one actually (sweet ke? boleh laa). So, this person actually give this quote and tagged me with others too...and he asked below the quotes, is it romantic enough to get yourselves couples???? Eeeewww.., OOOOkkeeyyy..that's it! And that quote was actually the finale and the reason why I started to crap in here. C'mon...I am soooo not desperate to get myself a 'partner'!! 

I don't care if people around me have boyfriends or girlfriends....I'm fine with it. It's just.., its very sickening and kinda annoying when you guys are being immature and childish (sometimes foolish, sorry to say) when something happened in your relationships. I'm not saying that I don't have problem myself, but at least try not to fool yourselves out there just because you got problems if your relationships are not working out. I'm saying that you shouldn't use the media to express in other words humiliate yourselves after something bad happened. For example, Facebook! Yeah, I do use Facebook to express something but let me be more specific.....to try to use an appropriate language, please??? That would be nice, thank you  very much... 

Not everyone wanna read your status or comments that would make them say like this 'oh my gosh, where the hell are these people learn the language that the words doesn't even exist in the dictionary?!' 

Lastly...., I am so sorry for those who happened to read this crappy post, but I really can't stand it reading all those things. I have no intention to hurt anyone's feelings with this post.., really..You can think that I should stop being a busybody to everyone's stats in Facebook or straight away unfriend me.., go ahead, I won't mind. It's just...., its kinda sad for me to actually know that my other friends are too busy loving someone who is uncertain to be the 'one' as life partner instead of loving their parents by studying to get a degree or anything that would make their parents proud of them. 

 I'm still not done yet about this..

Till then.....

Problems That We Face

Assalamualaikum...

I am so in the mood to post something. First thing first..., I just finished my very first semester in CFS. Whoa.., it is still hard for me to believe that I am already old enough to leave the high school..ahaks..

Now, I am waiting for my final semester examination result. I'm home with my family right now to spend about one month before going back to the campus for the short semester in November. That means, I have kinda plenty of time to spend with my sister, I mean spending time tutoring her, have a fight with my brother..hahha, and being a maid  for my beloved mama...

For about 4 months studying laws in CFS, i've learnt a lot. From my friends, my lecturers and also my experience. I learnt how people respect other opinions, learn about teammates, and I saw how different people with different ways in solving problems. 

Saying about problems.., hmm...., of course no one has ever escape from their problems. Including me. Its the matter of fact of how people encounter the problem and how they're gonna tackle it. Each time when I heard my friends are in trouble, the first thing that come in my mind, he or she must be lucky because Allah still love them. When people are in trouble, they would seek help and as a Muslim, where else do we seek help if not Allah?! So, I always remember that my mama once said to me that each time when I encounter any problem whether its big or not, I should always be thankful and be patience because Allah never gives us the test if we couldn't handle it. Plus, test and problem make us to be more stronger. Whenever I feel that that I'm gonna lose to my problem, I set my mind that nothing's gonna happen if we believe that everything that is happening is because of Allah. I don't know how anyone tackle their problems but that mind set always work for me. 

You wouldn't know whether you're strong or not if you can't even bear to take up the challenge and just giving up. Allah blessed us with family and friends who love us dearly...., so for me there's no reason why people are just giving up their life because of those problems they've encountered. I know that different people have different perspective (I keep reminding myself about that) but at least people would remember that Allah will always be with us. 

My point here is life is just like a wheel (sounds so cliche) and we're not always be on top nor be at the bottom. Problem that we encounter colored our life and make us stronger whether we realise it or not. So, no matter how hard the trouble that we face, just bare in mind that we're not alone.

I sounds like I am too mature enough to talk about this. But there's only one thing in my mind, never ever leave Solat and Quran. Its the most powerful weapon for us to face anything in this life and Hereafter, InsyaAllah.. This will always a reminder for me. 

My motive to post another crappy post is I just faced and heard enough what happened to me and people around me having our very own problems but yet.., life goes on....Let's cherish every single moment of it. 

Pen down..